Wednesday, 23 December 2009

For my Sweetheart..

How to say how much i love u dear..
Looks as just married and now its gonna be around 2 years..
Love remains the same.. care doubles the count..
Days are running so fast.. so many memorable moments in our life..

I still remember our first sight.. Jan20th..07
It was a nice conversation in a day or two..
Decided my life to surrender it to you..
The month Jan is special to me..so as i got u and Divya..

Soon was the marriage.. Days were less still better was our understanding..
Nothing less i know about you.. the same goes well for you and me..
Freaked some days here and there.. treasurable are the moments that we shared..
Though the time was meger.. Felt as if i lived years with you..

Lovely are the moments i spend with you..
Lucky is me to get such a person like you..
Love you to the extend no words can say..
Long way to go with you near by..

Great is the instant of our sweet angel..
i still remember the cute little bud..
Too small to hold.. too pretty to see..
She is to turn up 1 year soon.. I cant believe my eyes..
But need to realize the fact..

Many the times i fight with you..
Its all of love i have on you..
So much to say that i love you..
Silly things end up in shouting at you..

You work so hard to earn us things..
Will never say 'No' for all my wish..
Hide your wish to get mine done..
You dream so high.. to reach the sky..
wish you best in all ur endeavor..

I wish ever.. we live happily..
With egoless life for life-time..
Sure to do best for our Kid..
Lead a life fair for all..

Monday, 7 December 2009

Divya Mottai

Divya Mottai

Was waiting for this day.. This is the first function for Divya after her punniyadhanam. Divya afforded her hair to Palani murugar.

From the time of her birth, Divya had a dark, soft hair. she look very pretty with her hair washed. She herself used to look at the mirror and enjoy the flow of her hair. She is 11 months old when counted in tamil months this nov-dec and we decided to shave of her head. As per the custom of Sankar's house the first mottai should be in palani.

Divya's hair grown pretty much and we were not able to trim it even as it was to be sacrificed for god.We planned for this trip a month back and the date was fixed to be Nov 29th. I was thrilled to see her face without hair.

We started to karur on friday night (Nov 28th). It was quite late when we started from home, somehow managed to reach on time but fortunatly bus was delayed for 30 mins. Divya slept by that time. Meanwhile
got a call from athai saying that maama is not well. Felt guddy that evening and was taken to hospital. It was diagonized to be food poison. Sankar was very tensed hearing that and we reached home early
morning by around 4 A.M. Some politician expired in car accident and it seems to be a banth last day in Karur. Every channel in T.V telecasted that and the whole city was resilence that day.


The living room was bigger for her to crawl and roam around. She was enjoying her walk



We wanted to go to Chennai silks for getting Pattu paavadai for sweety. Was not sure whether the shops would be open or not. Somehow myself, sankar, paapa and dad started that evening after lunch and reached
there around 4. Dad was supposed to buy and give dress for we three :-). We selected a meroon colour paavadai sattai with mustard colored border. It was looking good on her. I was looking for some cotton dress for her for daily use. We could get one one goood one and took that for her. Next we went to take dress for Sankar, it was the one which took more time. Sankar always hesitate to take dress for him. Someone has to compel him. As usual i was complelling him to take one and after a long struggle he selected one shirt of green color. It was a good one. Atlast we started leaving down. next was my turn. I dont wanna go for sarees as i am wearing them rarely. we decided tot ake readymade salwars. i dont wanna go for a very costly one rather wanted to take two three sets. Its very tough to select a pair which is liked by both sankar and me. atlast found a designer salwar around 1000 bucks. Sankar wanted me to take a good one rather than going for many cheaper ones. Dad said to take one more salwar and that killed much of our time. Divya slept by that time and we atlast concluded one dress in peach color(Datd's selection) a sleek one.. atlast purchase was over and we went back home.

It was planned to start by 7 A.M the next morning and we went early to bed. I was not getting sleep properly that night and woke up early and started packing things for DD. Took all the dresses and stuffs needed for her and kept things aligned. Woke up divya and made her bath. Fed her one Idli. Everyone of us had breakfast by 7.30 and was getting ready. Cab was delayed by then. We took a couple of snaps by that time



This is a good snap taken by me :-). See how nice her hair is, soft curly one .

Wanted a family photo of we three alone and this came out good




We were supposed to take maama's office vehicle but in last minute it was cancelled to avoid unnecessary questions for officials. Sankar noticed it only in the last minute and was upset for that. The alternative for the Bolero was Maruthi Omni which Sankar hate the most. It was very uncomfortable for us to sit in that vehicle and we managed to reach maariamman temple in that vehicle. had a good darshan and started our trip in Bolero as per sankar's wish.

We took a way of Aravakurichhi where maama is a Thasildar. We traversed a different route than that of the bypass which is more in distance. The passage was very nice full of green and wealthy stuffs. Maama
arranged for darshan in Palani and it would be very crowded due to Sabarimala season and Kaarthigai maasam. He was getting calls continuosly on that. We reached a devastana place where we need to put mottai for Divya. I was so thrilled to see on how she will react to it. she was sleeping till that time and we woke her up for mottai. It has to be done before 12 P.M. it was 11.50 by the time everything was ready and atlast able to make out by 11.55

She was made to sit only dad's lap and she kept her head down on the knees of the person who was shaving her head. Was so surprised to see her not crying at all and that person did a fair job leaving no cuts. We were been to a place where Divya and dad took bath and freshened up. Meanwhile Rathi's dad was on board and we picked him up on the way. We spread Sandal all over her head to make it cool. Made her wear the new paavadai sattai and she was looking pretty in mottati. She was rather tired as she didnt sleep properly the last two days.
This was the snap taken during mottai. She started crying after seeing us glaring at her




We reached the rope car station and it was very highly corded, it seems like it will take around 3 hours to reach top of malai. Palani Thasildar's person was with us but even then we couldnt make out in ropecar as it was shutdown for 2 Hrs. We decided to go by train and reached that place. With the help of that person we could enter the special quota, Maama's car driver helped a lot for our darshan. The person who guided had some urgent personal work so gave us a pass to be given in temple for darshan and he left. Driver and his friend was with us to guide and to reach temple fast. This was the snap taken when we were waiting there.



After waiting for 1 hr or so we entered the train and reached the top of hill. It was very cold when we reached the place. The climate was excellent and the garden they have maintained was very cool. Everyone was very hungry by that time and reached a hotel in top of hill. Meals was over then and we had only sambar saadam and thayir saadam and vadai. It was an excellent food and myself and sankar had stomach full of lunch.

We stepped inside the temple with excitement to see lord muruga. This is the second time we are coming to this temple with Paapa. We had been there once when we had been to Karur for thambi's marriage. Divya is so lucky that she is coming for the second time to my favourtie god's temple :-). I always chant the word Muruga for what all my doings.  It got habituated from my childhood. We saw many monkeys on the way and was showing Divya all those and entered the entrance. It took quite sometime to reach the devasthanam. The temple was very crowded and thanks to maama that he arranged ofr darshan else it would have been very tough for us to manage with kid. In quite sometime we are near moolasthanam and we were made to wait for 5 mins for special darshan. Our turn came and we were allowed to sit near the karbakragam and it was a wonderful experience for the second time in my life. We had a very nice darshan and we all surrendered ourself to god. Divya was very happy to see the god and she was posing her hands as if she is praying. The Second occasion of Divya after her 11th day punniyadhanam was this and it was a good trip. We missed Sankar's brothers family as they couldnt make out for the trip.

We reached back home by around 7 P.M. wanted to visit Baby's house and Mangai's house. We started by 7.30 again and visited Mangai's house first. Divya was not going to her at all. Sometimes she behaves so. Cant help it,  it was a quick visit and we gave them prasadam and started to baby's house. We had been there for sometime and Divya was playing with Baby nd we noticed that she liked Good day biscuit. Even this was a quick visit and we turned back home around 9 P.M. It was a whole tiring day and had dinner and slept soon.