DD to School

June 15th 2011, DD's first day to school.The most awaited day of my sweety. Was wondering how she will react to the outside environment. She is never used to being outside home. The day has come, i was making her prepared to go to school. She was pretty excited about that. Got her couple of new dresses, new shoes, new bag and new waterbottle and what more.. she was much excited to carry those things rather than being to somewhere.

First day i was supposed to stay with her for the whole day to make her comfortable. We put in the class where the teacher can speak to her in tamil. Teacher's name was Janani, she seems to be very soft and caring. one way was happy about that.

As it was a montossori method, nothing like a class room environment. very homely and children's seems to be enjoying thier time spent. Each and every child was so excited about doing thier own activity.

First activity to DD was to pick the ball from the picker from the egg tray and put it in some other day. DD did it in a minute and she was happy doing that. Second activity was making chains out of different colors of rings she wasnt so comfortable doing that. Peeping her nose in next girl's activity.

Time passed by and it was snacks time. was wondering how other kids eat on thier own. DD is not used to eating on her own and the most toughest part is making her eat. The same happened that day she didnt eat anything and was watching how other kids were having thier tiffen.
1st day in school was over and we were asked to leave for the day. Made her play in the play area for sometime to make her feel interesting to come to school. And she did enjoy the place and people surrounded by.

Next day, no parents are allowed to go inside the classroom, was scared on DD will be crying when entering school. Once they took her from my hand to near the shoe rack, she started screaming. it was a tough sight to leave her crying so much. Me and sankar was waiting outside to know whether she is comfortable in the class. Sankar never got to see the class and without DD's knowledge he peeped into the class to make sure she is alright and not crying much. Dad was supposed to pick her up that day.


For the next couple of days she was like crying that " School vendam" "Naan schoolukku poga MAtten" and all those drama. From the next week she felt the school to be interesting and was the first person to be ready to school.
Each and everyday i could see her learning new things from school. Now she counts 1,2,3... using her fingers. She says A,B,C,D.. completely. Was trying to dance something and all. Good progress in her. But the only complaint from school is that she is not opening her mouth.


Proud of you dear. This is one more stage of your growth. Great to pen down your stages.. may be once you can read this blog you can know on how much we love you dear..

DD's ear piercing ceremony

The long awaited ear piercing ceremony for our sweetheart. I eagerly wanted to see her wearing ear rings. Whenever I get to change my ear rings she will be so excited to get herself wear one. Her most lovely anticipated ceremony was decided to be on May 8th after picking upon so many dates this was the one which was finalized.

Starting from the purchases Sankar was very particular that we give her the best. Started with buying ear ring for her which is supposed to be my dad’s gift. The only Jewellery shop which we always visit is Bhima in Koramangala. One fine Friday me, paapa, sankar and dad went there. The first earring collection was very less of which we selected one. Ear rings which were available there was very different as they will pierce the ear with that itself. Those days we were used to put only studs like star or mottu where the seller girl in the shop confirmed from gold smith that the first ear ring should be of type rings and we end up buying a ring with a pearl in it. It was looking very pretty. I was sure it will look good on her. Dad wanted to buy her a chain too. Next we went to chain section and was looking for different models which are short enough so that she shall wear. We selected three of them and the final choice was left to sankar. He selected the one which was made of gold mottu. It was looking different and good. We were the last to come out of the shop. Got stuck in rain and somehow managed to reach home early.

Next purchase was paavada satta for her. I didn’t wanted to go for Kanchi pattu because we are not anyways gonna wear the paavada satta very often and it is going to be waste of money. Wanted to get a simple readymade one. We went to FM Silks in kormangala just to have a look and feel of paavada. We saw one designer paavada which was pretty costly but Sankar wanted to get that for Divya. We thought it would go very well with her and It did . Stitching that was a very big pain and we were not aware of good tailor around. Atlast went to the Maruthi nagar and got her paavada stitched. They stitched properly as expected.

Purchase for me happened in Karur when we went last time itself. I got a Pattu Saree in Sky blue color. I loved the saree. Went to Megamart and got a shirt and pant selected for Sankar as well. I wanted to get that kinda shirt to sankar. Generally maroon goes good with him.

After all the purchase packed things to travel and started Friday night. It was a good journey as we didn’t feel much difficulty in going by sleeper bus. Reached home by 4.30 AM. We had got a ring for Maama for his retirement. Sankar presented him that and they were happy. Had a chat for sometime. Mom and dad went to sleep. We were killing time to await the morning.

Saturday went just like that. Dad and sankar went to pazhamudhir choolai to buy fruits for seer. We went to Mariamman temple to pray before we leave to get her ear pierced. Night we were planning to sleep early as we need to wake by early morning 4 AM. Had a small nap for some time and I woke up exactly by 4. Everyone got ready grabbed up all the relatives on the way and then started the journey.

Before going to temple wanna finish off the breakfast. Had the same in the usual hotel and reached temple. There was already many ear piercing and mottai happening for other families. As soon as we reached we made things ready for her hair shaving. Got her head shaved in the lap of her grandpa. She didn’t even cry a bit I was very happy to see that. One old man did that very slowly and she didn’t get hurt so much. We didn’t force to take all the hair in the forehead and all. Made her bath and was getting ready for the ear piercing.

Dad gave us the seer, ear studs and chain after which the asari came to pierce the ear. I was so scared to see her ear getting pierced. Changed her dress to paavada satta. She was looking pretty in that paavada satta and mottai . The ear piercing is to be done with the same stud and as the asari was not so used to this kind of studs it was really a painful task. After marking up the exact point to be pierced, the fellow started piercing the ear, DD was screaming of pain and I couldn’t see her crying and I was crying along with her. Everyone was teasing me but I couldn’t stop crying. Atlast it was all done and it was pierced in the expected point. Good to see DD with ring. We had offered special pooja and had nice darshan and started back to Karur.

Maama wanted to go to Vekkaliyamman temple. Went there had a nice abhishegam dharshan, had lunch after that and started back to Karur. Was a tiring journey as we woke up early morning and no sleep the day before the ceremony too. Reached karur by 4 PM. Rested for some time and started packing back to Karur.

DD was very excited to see her ear pierced and was looking into the mirror and was saying “Valikkala.. Azhaga irukku” and was saying “Thaatha motta adichitanga.. mudi varum.. ”.. So innocent talk.. Luv u sweety.. Loving your sweet speech..

DD is grown up now to school..

So many stages of DD has passed by now.. It took so long for me to write on one more on her stage..

Now, if i look at DD she is grown up a lot.. She can realize the facts now.. she can frame sentences now..she can say what she likes and what she dislikes now.. she can tell what she wants now..She now demands for her needs.. she understands the daily routine.. she can tell what all tastes she likes..

I believe it to be right time for her to be into school.. though Sankar is totally against in putting her into school at this early age, i am too much into it because i dont want her to be a scape goat when she is into school when all other kids know more the things than her..

I didnt want her to be so good in academics as her father but want her to be much into the activities and motor development skills..We did a survey on the play schools near by and got one to be good among others.. "


The Little Feat.." As the name says i believe it would be a good start for my cute little pie to start her schooling with.. Wanna bring her communication skill very well which this school is much into..

They are more into the Phonetics and social behaviour rather than the academics which is what my expectation is too..

Just imagining the day when i am gonna send her to school.. Its gonna be very special for me.. Special day for my Special Kid..

Waiting for the day dear..

Luv u so much..

3 Years being with you seems to be 30 Years living together dear..

Deeply, Madly

Our wedding anniversary brings to mind

The happiness and joy you’ve brought to me,

Sweet memories--the laughter and the tears,

Devoted love you give abundantly.

The place I want to be is close to you;

There’s ecstasy and peace in your embrace.

I know that I can cope with what life brings,

As long as I wake up to see your face.

You’re all I ever wanted, and much more.

I look at you and I still get a thrill.
Our marriage is the best thing in my life;

I love you deeply, madly, and I always will.

 

 

Every Year

Every year that I'm with you

Has been better than before;

It's hard for me to even think

How I could love you more.

Every year you've graced my life

Has been full of happiness;

I love your caring face, your voice,

Your tender, sweet caress.

Every year when this day comes,

I'm filled with love and pleasure;

Happy Anniversary, Love,

My joy, my delight, my treasure.

 

So Much Time, So Much Love

So much time has passed, my love,

since we met and married,

so much love each hour, day and minute.

Passion, yes, and also

tender looks, casual caresses, fond words

filling my memories with pleasure forever.

With you, sweetheart, every year,

every anniversary, is the best one yet.

 

Ganatha Manam

The most luckiest person is the world is the one who is loved the most.. And the worst life is for the one who is dejected the most.. The most troublesome life is for the one who fights for love.. And the most pittiest life is for the one who longs for love..

Thinking of the days when i was surrounded by friends all around with genuine love and affection... i used to feel so greedy for that.. May be for all those i am longing now.. How nice if i can rewind back to those old days.. life was with no much responsibilities.. no much commitments.. no such compromises.. oh my god.. sweet were those days... Countable good pals.. (Nancy,Rajee..).. May be the so much of love and affection showed by them make me long for the same kind now??? dunno.. Miss my friends a lot..

Got to hear this song today.. lovely lyrics

Vaazhkai Oru Vaanam Pola


Uravu Athil Megam Pola

Natpu Matum Suriyan Pola

Nanban Vaazhga

Petravargal Arinthathai Vidavum

Matravargal Therinthathai Vidavum

Mutrum Enai Purinthathu Natpu

Natpu Vaazhga

Aanum Pennum,Pennum Aanum

Kaakum Karpu Nalla Natpu

Vaa Thozha Oh My Friend

Ennai Manushienra

Muthal Manithan Nee

Vaa Thozhi Oh My Friend!

Ennai Manithanenra

Muthal Manushi Nee



Megak Kootil Thuligal Aanom

Engu Vandhu Nathigal Aanom

Orumai Inge Panmaiyanom

Panmai Koodi Orumaiyanom

Minnal Vanthal Megam Kudakkizhinthu Poogum

Vaanam Enrum Kizhithal Ilaye

Vaanam Pole Engal Natpum Vaazhthirukume

Maalai Nizhal Pol Valarum Pantham

Mayangi Mayangi Magilum Nenjam



Kallaippola Arpamanen

Natpinale Sirpamanen

Netruvaraiyil Pulliyanen

Ungalaley Vaarthaiyanen

Konda Acham Koocham Vitu Odivitathe

Ithu Anbin Anmai Thanthathe

Nenjil Vanjam Vanmam Elam Maarivitathe

Paarai Manasu Pazhuthu Vitathe

Pantha Paasam Purinthu Vitathe


Only wish is for a kind shoulder to lean on, lovely words to hear through, caring hands to hold, gentle touch to feel and endless love to pour..