The anguish Heart

The anguish Heart

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Something's in life cannot be expressed through words..

But the pain can be felt deep inside the heart..
Say it to be the pain of getting dejected, pain of longing for love, pain of losing someone..
Can this pain be cured? or avoided? or healed??

Though it is easy to answer as Yes, its tough to apply in one's life..
If we analyse the reason for this pain the answer would be a single word..

"Expectation"

What is that all about?????
Is that something which shouldnt be practiced?
Can one one has answer for it?

Expectations are to be made but still how far?? is the question..
The limit of it is very hard to be decided and very tough to be handled..
All hard feelings can be avoided fairly if we can judge the person to whom we are expecting what

A child longing for love of his/her mother is not an over expectation..
But expecting his/her working mother to be with his/her all the time is over expectation..

A guy expecting his girl to love him back is not an over expectation..
But expecting it even after knowing that she is commited with some other guy is an over expectation..

In this mechanical life, longing to spend an hour with the partner can also be an over expectation :-) [ Not sure whether to use :-) or :-( ]

But how can one realise whether his/her expectation is an over expectation or the needed one??I am still expecting the answer for it.. (who knows even this can be over expectation :-))